Wednesday, May 4, 2011

MAY '11 - Kenya Again

Forth trip to Africa this year; third one to Kenya.  Still willing if a bit worn.

Work was just work.  Time with local folks was worth having made the trip to me.  Among the truly nice people of the world, my friends welcome me back and make a place for me in their homes and lives despite truly difficult circumstances.
Three more kids for a little help getting in school.  Uniforms and fees to start.  A trip to the hospital for one of them.  They bring our group to 37 kids this semester.
Ever notice how folks who have the least are often the most giving?  Or that folks who have the most difficult lives are the most likely to stop and land a hand?
After making the trek across Africa - Sao Tome & Principe, Nigeria, Ethiopia, Djibouti, and Kenya - I wonder why the wealthy are so often full of themselves while the poor encompass nobility and generosity.  It's not just in Africa, of course.  It was the same all those years when we lived in Spain and wandered across Europe. 
Japan may have been an exception; they were all pretty nice folks, everywhere we went. 
The phone rang this morning as I sat at my office in Maryland.  It was dear Salma.  It costs just pennies to call the States from Kenya.  She'd called just to say hello and thank you.  She's become like a sister to me.  The times we've had to sit and talk have been family time. 
OK so minutes later, the phone rings again, and it's Salma again and you can hear her family laughing in the background; she says, "Anderson wants to say hello to his friend."  Ha!  So 3-year old Anderson gets on the phone and laughs and says something incomprehensible in Swahili, perhaps, and I ask him if he's being a good boy and he laughs and you can hear Salma and her sister and mom and grandmother laughing along with him.  Marilyn says I got a grandpa call from Kenya!
In Kenya, the rains of April and May 'make the animals happy', my friends tell me.  It's been a long dry season, and the rains are appreciated.
SUMMER '11 UPDATE:  The rainy season was inadequate.  The drought has set in.  Millions face starvation in the region.  Our friends and their children there are at risk, and we have little effective access to their community.

Scrambling for funds for the access we do have.  Keeping them in school gets them one meal a day at the government school.  It's just maize meal, but it'll keep them alive. 

Thursday, February 3, 2011

FEB '11 - Off to Kenya






Three hurry-up trips to Kenya this year. Chance of a lifetime, of course.


Off to Kenya for the first time on just a day's notice. Difficult to put things together that quickly, but we managed. Landed in Nairobi in the middle of the night, and even later in Mombasa; got to see Kenya for the first time at sunrise. Beautiful place sometimes, as the photo shows.


Tourism is a major segment in the economy. Seasonal and fluctuating, vulnerable to rumors of pirates, the business is difficult for all but the largest organizations.

It's now the off-season for tourists here in Kenya, though; several hotels are closed and their employees laid off until after the rainy season. With a monthly income while working of maybe $50 - $75, supporting one person is difficult, a family nearly impossible, and devastating when laid off. It's a difficult world.


Unskilled labor tasks pay little and demand much. Here (above, right) a team of young fellows struggle with a heavy cart-load of produce, I think. We saw hundreds like it making their way through traffic in Mombasa carrying potatoes, jugs of water, building materials, you name it.


Hundreds, perhaps thousands of shops like the one here (below, left) hope for business but find little. A young beautician wannabe tries the second-hand clothing business, too. The only one making money is probably the landlord.




On the street, you're frequently offered goods or services, (haircut, manicure, taxi, safari, etc.). They're all out there hustling because they can go for several days without selling anything. "Make me small business, Mister. Just hundred shillings?" A hundred shillings, about a buck and a quarter, may be their total income for a day's work. With living costs being similar to the western world, it won't go far.




(Right) His name is Anderson; he's 3 and a sweet kid. Momma's name is Salma . She sells things that she makes or buys to feed the family. A young widow and paraplegic, life is pretty hard. They live with her mom and grandmother. They invited me to visit their village. Nice folks.


I went back to their village to visit on the weekend. Joseph is here (below) with his sister, Salma. They live quite simply in a little village a short distance back from the ocean. 



The family is gracious, articulate, and well mannered. They were thankful to have a chance to sit and talk to someone a bit. So was I. Joseph explained the intricacies of house construction and maintenance. We laughed as we shared leaky roof stories. His roof will be made of palm fronds and be refreshed each year just before the rainy season.

... work, work, work, blah, blah, blah. You're not interested in my work.




Friday before departure - I went out in town to say goodbye to my friends this afternoon. Walter is a sweet fellow, early polio victim and severely limited, lives in a wheel chair. He remembers my name when we meet. He asked me to take his picture so I'd remember him and tell my friends about him and his country.


Florence was malnourished as a child and suffers from some structural deformation; her ankles aren't built quite right and she's painfully thin; narrow at hips and shoulders. Unfailingly polite.


Jonathan is the oldest in his household of 6, I think. In this off season, he has no work and no real options but begging. We've funded his charcoal business and roof repair for the rainy season. He brought a necklace gift for my wife.


Salma (with Anderson) whom I met early on was on the street in her wheel chair, selling her hand made items. Her brother Joseph came and got me and told me she had a gift for me; she'd had my name carved in a piece of ebony as a thank you gift for our friendship.


Lillian tracked me down to show me that her burn was healing; she'd burned herself on a motor scooter taxi and the wound had swelled and reddened. I bought some antiseptic spray for her which seems to have helped matters.


Others called me by name and asked for one last gift before I left. Pretty intense. Oh, and Joseph hinted that if I had any laundry I didn't want to take home... I gave him the shirt I was wearing; we both laughed and I walked back to the hotel in my undershirt.


UPDATE: Arriving home on Sunday, unpack everything into the washing machine, then at work on Monday, got a call midday asking if I'd be willing to go back to Kenya. Of course. :) My heart is willing; my backside is tired of airplanes, though. Second Time in Kenya: after 4 days at home. Good grief!



Back in Kenya for less than 12 hours; I went across the street to have a coke at the restaurant; "Mr. Brian, Mr. Brian, I heard you had returned!" Greeted by perhaps half a dozen of the local beggars whom I had befriended my first time here, I gave away my day's per diem before lunch. :) Walter, the polio/wheelchair fellow I was so taken with last week, heard I was back and hand-pedaled his way down the street to greet me. Sweet fellow.
My Masaai friend Isaac; he works as
a night-watchman, lives outside and
sends the money, about $60/mo,
up north to his family.

Work, work, work, blah, blah, blah.


P.S. I gave contact info to a few, nice folks. They've called me on the phone from Kenya (it's super cheap) just for the fun of talking to a friend halfway around the world. Maybe 8 or 10 calls now, since I left last month.


Want to know why I was willing to go back?


05/11 - On my way back to Kenya next week for the third time this year. Gladly.


Then home again and back at work. It's almost normal until ...


At the office, my phone rings ...


It's little Anderson from Kenya!


Friday, January 21, 2011

JAN '11 Djiboutui again!

A short-notice requirement sent us back to Djibouti.  I was pleased for the opportunity to reconnect with friends there, but stunned when on arrival was told that my friend Muhammad had died and his family had disappeared.  Inquiry over several days produced no more information or confirmation.  My correspondence with the oldest son has gone unanswered since October.  Their house (left, with a tree in the yard) is occupied by another family now.

The fellows I work with and I went to lunch in the city.  When we parked, this little girl offered to watch our vehicle for us.  It's a common practice kids do in hopes of a little money.
When we came out, she was there with her mother and brother, waiting.  Cheerful enough, all of them, and polite.

We gave them a generous amount, and the little girl asked for more before she even saw what we'd given her.  :)  Gave her more, of course.  With 60% unemployment in the city and 80+% unemployment in rural areas, they've got a tough and frightening future.  Neither rude nor demanding, they politely let us know that they could use the help.  It's easy to give to such a gracious request.

With gaps in our work day, I took the opportunity to wander the countryside, hoping to see and understand.  Several encounters with surprisingly nice people added bits of insight here and there.  I picked up one young fellow beside the road with a couple of his friends.  Recently graduated from business school, he had been looking for work for awhile with no luck.  We talked about where jobs might be emerging in the country's economy.  Perhaps at the expanding oil terminal or at the new port facilities.


Farther out still, literally at the end of the road, these two precious children watched me for awhile and tentatively made their way out to where I was photographing the countryside.  Actually, I was just waiting for them to get comfortable with my being there.  The boy brought his school notebook with him, perhaps so I could see he was a young man of substance and ambition.  We chatted briefly before I asked if I could take their picture.  He instructed his little sister to ask for money (which I was glad to give) and say thank you politely.  Sweet kids.  The cinder block structure in the distance, left, is their home, I think.  The next buildings are restaurants that have failed.






On a subsequent visit to the same spot, I met this young man (in blue, left) and his family.  Nice folks.  The kind of people you'd be pleased to live next door to, walk to school with, maybe hang out together on weekends.  On the hilltop behind them, their simple house.  There are 12 folks in the family.  None are employed full time.  It's a tough world for them, there in Djibouti.

A friendship gift from one spicey food lover to another; Tabasco speaks for itself.  I brought some grocery gifts for the family; stuff they might not buy for themselves very often; and the Tabasco (came all the way from the states) which goes with absolutely everything.  It's one of our favorite excuses to start a conversation about things we like.  Chicken pepper soup, fish pepper soup, pepper pasta, pepper sardines, beans and pepper sauce, eggs with pepper sauce, bread with pepper sauce, the list (and the conversation) goes on for awhile.  Even more fun when we don't speak French and they don't speak English.

On a subsequent day, I met poppa and the rest of the men in the family. Fine fellows, all.  Gracious and hospitable, they made me welcome and endured my horrible French.






On the way home, I stopped in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia, a place with a lot of history.  This statue, for instance, called the Lion of Judah, has a tale to tell. Erected in 1930 just before Emperor Haile Selassie's coronation, it was stolen by the Italian occupiers in 1935 and taken to Rome, where it was erected next to the Vittorio Emanuelle Monument. During the 4th anniversary celebrations of the proclamation of the Itlian Empire, Adolf Hitler chose to visit Rome, and attended the celebratory parades along side the Fascist Dictator Musollini and King Victor Emanuelle III. In the parade were numerous subjects of Italy's African Empire, including a young Eritrean named Zerai Deres. Zerai Deres was marching with other parade members carrying a ceremonial sword with which to salute the King, the Fuhrer, and el Duce, at the grandstand. As the parade marched past the Vittorio Emauelle monument, Zerai looked up and saw to his shock, the golden Lion of Judah, the symbol of the ancient monarchy to which his ancestors had long owed aliegence, erected as war booty in the heart of Rome. It was too much for him to bear, and he promptly drew his sword and with tears of anger running down his face he fell on the first Italian officer he could find. He killed and wounded numerous Italian military officers before he was killed. Zerai Deres is lionized to this day as a brave Ethiopian patriot.

The monument remained in Rome for decades, and was finally returned to Addis Ababa in the 1960's. When it was re-erected in it's square, the Emperor was present in military uniform to salute, and to pay tribute to Zerai Deres. Following the revolution in 1974, the new regime decided to remove the statue once more as it was a monarchist symbol. However, the elderly war veterans association members appealed to the new government to consider the memory of Zerai Deres and his sacrifice that was inspired by this very symbol. The statue was saved and remains today.




I came to Addis just to visit a family there.  The older son with whom I've corresponded for the last year is away in college.  I'd told him I was coming, and he told them, so they were prepared. 

Momma (with help from little grand-daughter) prepares coffee and popcorn for me as her guest.  She'd roasted the coffee beans and they'd ground them on the spot with a mortar and pestle.  Traditional Ethiopian coffee, she explains, is made that way.

Momma was completely blind when I was here a year ago, and had a leg problem that left her crippled as well.  Her husband died several years ago, so the children had cared for her on their own.  The oldest at home, a fourteen-year old fellow, worked as a shoe shine boy in front of the hotel where I stayed.  That's where we first met.  Momma's sight is restored now, thanks to getting some help from the public health-care system, and she got treatment for her leg, so she's able to walk a bit.  The kids (who speak a little English) tell me she may get to have an operation on her leg in the next year or so that they hope will restore her mobility.  It's been a hard couple of years.  They thanked me for visiting and for the gifts I brought and promised to pray for me and my family.  Fine folks.

I hope to return, perhaps this summer.


Wednesday, August 18, 2010

We're here for a short visit




"Strange is our situation here upon earth.  Each of us comes for a short visit, not knowing why, yet sometimes  seeming to a divine purpose. From the standpoint of daily life, however, there is one thing we do know.  That we are here for the sake of others... for the countless unknown souls with whose fate we are connected... by a bond of sympathy."

Einstein's oft quoted declaration points to what so many of us fear about ourselves; that perhaps we're selfish and deliberately blind to the condition of our fellow man.

Could it be that we that we complain about our "rich man's problems" such as our supermarket's lack of good avocados or the rising cost of a good education? Then we neither feel nor say anything about our brother in Pakistan who lost everything in the flood last week. He lost his home, his livelyhood, his wife and children. Or how about the African father who weeps because his children are undernourished and he has no power to feed them better? 
Kids in Africa; their community has adopted us and made us part of their
family.  They've taught us so much over the years.

"We are not in control.  We can't change things," one sweet friend said to me yesterday. Actually, she does change things. Although confined to a wheelchair, she travels with a group to Africa every year accompanying a shipment of things that help communities there. They work all year, collecting goods, then they go to the most difficult places and live in the communities, teaching and helping and dispensing love unconditionally. :) She and her friends are on my short list of heroes.

"Estranha é nossa situação aqui na Terra. Cada um de nós vem para uma curta visita, sem saber porquê, mas às vezes parecendo um propósito divino. Do ponto de vista da vida cotidiana, porém, há uma coisa nós sabemos: que estamos aqui para o bem dos outros ... pelas incontáveis almas desconhecidas com cujo destino estamos ligados ... por um vínculo de simpatia."  Homemade World

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

AUG '10 - Back in Africa

In country for a couple of weeks work, I made time at the end of the day to visit friends.  Just a few minutes from my work site, this is the first family I met here back in '07.  Poppa shows me the site for his daughter and son-in-law's new house.  My Portuguese remains inadequate, but I think he said they were just married this year.

It will be a simple home, perhaps 300 sq ft.  Water is available less than 10 minutes away.  Having family nearby is a big deal, of course.   In the collage left, the young couple carries wood from the sawmill for the project.
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On the right, below, Poppa's youngest and my first friend in Africa (and our fourth grade scholar) enjoys summer vacation.  School starts in October here.  She's been making good grades all along and actually enjoys school.

We're tied to five families here now with twelve or so of their children in school.  This last school year went well and all of our kids passed on to the next grade.  Our oldest boy passed the critical sixth grade standard achievement test, which is quite a big deal.  It means he gets to go on the the 7th grade.  The test has about a 70% failure rate marking the end of education for most.  The next big hurdle is at the end of the 9th grade.  Only a few children go on to finish high school.

Aug 26, 2010
From various places on various days, here are some photos of Sao Tome; a little scenery to go with the pictures of kids and friends.

Click on the thumbnail above to see the large format photos.


With photos from our time together a few months ago (photo, right) and some books from Lisbon, my friends here are part of a large family of fine folks.  Grandma adopted me awhile back and the rest of the family has made a place for me.  Books in Portuguese are an appreciated gift; there's no outlet in the country where they can buy new books and the libraries are minimally helpful.  Most manufactured goods come by plane or ship to this isolated country.